Brace Yourself: High Divorce Rates Predicted for January 2024
Beginning of the new year typically leads to a high volume of calls to family law firms, and a surge of Initial Consultations booked. This is a well-known annual increase at family law firms throughout Ontario. The first Monday of the new year was coined “Divorce Day” due to the spike in calls. In 2022, Russell Alexander’s firm received 68% more calls during the first five weekdays of the new year. Divorces aren’t necessarily caused by the holiday season. It’s not that the holidays lead to divorce as much as they provide a motivation for people who’ve been thinking about it for a while to take action. Few divorces happen overnight. Instead, they’re usually a slow process that finally reaches a boiling point.
Russell Alexander’s list of 10 major reasons for the surge in divorce inquiries:
1. The Holiday Hangover
As the glitter of the holidays fades, deep-seated issues surface, leading couples to reconsider their relationship.
2. The January Rush
The stress of the holidays leads people to put things on hold and new year’s gives them a chance to make a resolution to change.
3. Financial Frustrations
Overspending on gifts and festivities puts a strain on finances, especially during the current cost-of-living crisis.
4. Unrealistic Expectations
The idealization of the holiday season leads couples to reevaluate things when reality doesn’t live up to the fantasy.
5. Family Feuds
Extended time with in-laws and relatives during the holidays intensifies existing tensions, with conflict lingering even after the guests leave.
6. Too Much Togetherness
While holidays are meant for quality time, constant proximity can also highlight incompatibilities and intensify irritations.
7. Reflective Resolutions
The end of the year is a natural time for introspection, leading many to reflect that their marriage isn’t fulfilling, and inspiring determination for change.
8. Infidelity Incidents
The social nature of the holiday season, filled with parties and gatherings, can lead to infidelity, a common catalyst for divorce.
9. Delayed Decisions
Many couples who are already headed to divorce choose to wait until after the holidays to avoid disrupting family gatherings or upsetting children.
10. New Beginnings
For some, the holiday season is seen as a time for fresh starts, leading them to consider major life changes.
While the rise in divorces may sound negative, it’s an opportunity for couples to seek personal growth and fulfillment. It’s a time to embrace change, seek support, and look forward to a future that holds promise for a better, more authentic life. Remember, the end of one chapter signifies the start of another, often brighter one, filled with possibilities and hope for a happier tomorrow.
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