Court Comes Down Hard on Self-Represented Wife – And Orders $150,000 in Costs Against Her
On a recent ruling to allocate costs of the litigation between a former couple that lasted almost two decades, the court had some pointed comments about self-represented litigants in general, and about the wife’s unreasonable conduct in the case, specifically.
The court began its judgment this way:
A New Year
It is 2019, and Ian and Katherine Kirby, after 17 years, have a Final Order in their marathon matrimonial struggle.
There is one more battle to fight, however – costs.
The trial, more like a sentence than a sojourn, lasted ten days. Katherine acted for herself, and she is responsible for much of the prolongation of the hearing.
Although the divorce itself was agreed upon, the court listed the many specific legal issues that needed to be resolved through litigation between the former couple. Each spouse had been successful on some issues and not others, and some had garnered only “mixed” success. Overall, however, the court concluded that the husband was more successful in the outcome than the wife, and that he was more deserving of costs.
The court then made some general comments about self-represented litigants:
The proliferation of self-represented litigants in family law cases is here to stay. I suspect that there are many reasons for that: cuts to legal aid services, the self-help resorted to on the world wide web, and (let us not be so naïve to ignore) the voluntary choice by some litigants to act for themselves because they think that the judge will be forced into being their advocate.
With respect to the latter category of self-represented litigants, it is time that we recognize that there are some (not most, maybe even not many) persons who can readily afford legal counsel but simply choose to act for themselves because they think that it will provide them a tactical edge in the courtroom. It will cause the presiding judicial official to go overboard with assistance, not just procedurally but substantively, or so goes the rationale.
There is nothing wrong with self-representation. What is wrong, though, is hijacking the proceeding at the expense of the other side (who has counsel) and then expecting mercy from the court when it comes to deciding costs.
We do not have two sets of rules and principles for costs in family litigation – one for those who hire lawyers and one for those who act for themselves.
It then elaborated on what a court’s guiding principles are when awarding costs:
The principles apply to both types of litigants: (i) in deciding entitlement to costs, consider the presumption that a successful party deserves some costs, and consider the factors outlined in the Family Law Rules, and take into account any other relevant circumstance; (ii) in deciding quantum of costs, remember the basic tenet that the goal is to achieve something that is fair, just and reasonable, and keep in mind the prudent expectations of the parties, and pay attention to the importance of proportionality, and assess (but do not dissect line by line) the reasonableness of the time spent and the fees and disbursements charged.
The court added:
Above all, place some emphasis on why we award costs to begin with – to partially indemnify successful litigants, and to encourage settlement (even where the final result was worse than what the party offered to settle for), and to sanction and deter inappropriate conduct by litigants (even behaviour that falls short of “bad faith”).
The process by which we decide costs is not science. It is more artful than that. Consequently, there is an inescapable degree of arbitrariness to any costs award. To pretend otherwise, I respectfully suggest, is a little rich.
The court then examined the spouses’ respective conduct during the course of the litigation. In fairness, it noted that both spouses were responsible for the fact that the file languished for years and years. But it credited the husband for making greater efforts to settle without a trial, for being better prepared, and for behaving “much more admirably during trial”.
On the other hand, the wife’s conduct was unreasonable: She made late-breaking “wild allegations” of being raped by her husband, and failed to comply with prior orders. Even her submission on costs was filed late, after being granted an extension, and it did not comply with the court’s express directions on its length. (The court read it nonetheless, as a courtesy).
As the court summed it up: “She single-handedly caused the hearing to be significantly longer than it should have been” and her conduct in the past two years or so was “worthy of serious condemnation by this Court”.
It concluded that the case “ought to have never went to trial,” and that “awarding to [the husband] every cent of the $190,438.63 is in the cards”.
However, the court noted that the wife is “indeed, mentally ill”, a fact confirmed by the family physician’s evidence, and surmised that some of her unreasonableness is due to her psychological issues. Concluding that this militated against awarding the husband his full costs, the court reduced the total to an even $150,000, all-in. Those costs were to be immediately deducted from the wife’s share of the proceeds of the matrimonial home.
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