Parenting Time & Decision Making

Family Day Special: What Ontario Courts Value Most in Parents

Written by Russell Alexander ria@russellalexander.com / (905) 655-6335

Family Day is a reminder of how important family relationships truly are. For separating parents, understanding what Ontario courts value helps guide decisions that support children’s wellbeing. Whether you’re negotiating a parenting plan or preparing for court, knowing these principles can make a world of difference. 

Overview of the “Best Interests of the Child” Test

Courts focus on what arrangement best supports a child’s wellbeing and development. 

How Courts Assess Parenting Capacity

Time, involvement, caregiving history, and stability all play a role. 

Stability, Routine, and Caregiving History

Judges prioritize consistency and predictability for children. 

Effective Communication Between Parents

Cooperative communication is a strong indicator of healthy co-parenting. 

Cooperation and Conflict Reduction

Lower conflict environments support better child outcomes. 

Mental, Emotional, and Physical Health Considerations

Parents’ ability to support children emotionally is carefully considered. 

How Children’s Voices and Preferences Factor In

Depending on age and maturity, children’s wishes may be included. 

Impact of Family Violence on Parenting Decisions

Courts take allegations or evidence of abuse very seriously. 

Documentation Courts Find Helpful

Parenting logs, communication records, and schedules support your case. 

Steps Parents Can Take to Strengthen Their Case

Consistency, involvement, and respectful communication all matter. 

By understanding what courts value, parents can focus on creating arrangements that are truly in their children’s best interests. With the right information, you can approach parenting decisions with confidence and care. 

Join our free webinar, What Ontario Courts Value Most in Parents, on February 17 at 5PM ET. 

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About the author

Russell Alexander

Russell Alexander is the Founder & Senior Partner of Russell Alexander Collaborative Family Lawyers.