Court Cases & Orders

Preparing for Court: A Practical Checklist for Family Law Clients

Written by Russell Alexander ria@russellalexander.com / (905) 655-6335

Court appearances are often short and focused. Preparation determines whether they are effective. 

Before your appearance

  • Review your materials and understand your position 
  • Ensure all documents are filed and served properly 
  • Prepare a concise summary of key facts 
  • Identify the specific orders you are seeking 
  • Anticipate the other party’s position 
  • Bring organized copies of all relevant documents 

Practical guidance

Be focused. Courts deal with specific issues at each step. Stay on point. 

Be realistic. Not every issue will be resolved at once. 

Be prepared to answer questions directly. 

Common mistakes

  • Arriving without reviewing materials 
  • Raising new issues without notice 
  • Focusing on irrelevant details 
  • Expecting final resolution at early stages 

Why it matters

Preparation improves credibility and efficiency. It also increases the likelihood of achieving meaningful progress at each appearance. 

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About the author

Russell Alexander

Russell Alexander is the Founder & Senior Partner of Russell Alexander Collaborative Family Lawyers.