Divorce 101

How to Tell Your Spouse You Want a Divorce

Written by Russell Alexander ria@russellalexander.com / (905) 655-6335

What You’ll Learn

10 Steps to Approach the Conversation About Divorce 

Are you struggling with how to tell your spouse that you want a divorce? Here’s a glimpse of the key steps we’ll be covering in our upcoming Family Law Now After Hours live event, “How to Tell Your Spouse You Want a Divorce”: 

  • Choose the right time by finding a quiet, private moment to have the conversation. 
  • Prepare emotionally by anticipating potential reactions and planning your response. 
  • Be clear and honest, communicating your decision calmly and respectfully. 
  • Avoid blame by using “I” statements to focus on your perspective. 
  • Be compassionate and acknowledge the difficulty of the conversation for both parties. 
  • Set boundaries to keep the discussion focused and avoid escalating conflict. 
  • Provide next steps, sharing your plans for legal representation and the separation process. 
  • Allow time for processing by giving your spouse space to absorb the news. 
  • Have support available by informing a trusted friend or professional who can help you cope. 
  • Follow up to address immediate concerns and maintain open communication. 

Join us on January 28th at 5pm for this live session where we’ll break down these steps in detail, equipping you with the tools to navigate this difficult conversation thoughtfully and effectively. 

Why Attend?

This live event is designed to help you approach the conversation about divorce with confidence and compassion. Whether you’re preparing to initiate this discussion or seeking guidance on handling it effectively, this session offers valuable insights and practical advice. 

Reserve your spot today and take the first step toward a constructive and respectful separation process!

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About the author

Russell Alexander

Russell Alexander is the Founder & Senior Partner of Russell Alexander Collaborative Family Lawyers.