Divorce 101

Dating Again: How to Tell Your Ex and Kids

Written by Russell Alexander ria@russellalexander.com / (905) 655-6335

What You’ll Learn:

Approaching a New Relationship with Sensitivity and Confidence 

Starting to date again after separation or divorce is a big step—and sharing that news with your ex and children can feel daunting. In our upcoming Family Law Now After Hours live event, “Dating Again: How to Tell Your Ex and Kids,” we’ll walk through how to approach these conversations with care, clarity, and emotional intelligence. 

  1. Making Sure You’re Emotionally Ready:
    Before jumping into something new, make sure you’ve taken the time to heal and reflect. 
  2. Considering How the News Will Affect Others:
    Being thoughtful in your approach helps reduce hurt feelings and confusion. 
  3. Keeping Your Ex Informed, Not Seeking Approval:
    It’s about communication, not permission—especially when kids are involved. 
  4. Timing the Conversation with Kids Carefully:
    Don’t rush. Give them time to adjust to the idea before any big changes happen. 
  5. Reassuring Your Kids About Their Place in Your Life:
    Let them know they’re still your top priority, no matter what. 
  6. Delaying Introductions Until the Relationship Is Serious:
    Protect your child’s emotional wellbeing by avoiding a revolving door of partners. 
  7. Being Honest Without Oversharing:
    Tailor the conversation to your child’s age and maturity level—keep it simple and reassuring. 
  8. Respecting Everyone’s Emotional Responses:
    Reactions may vary—be patient and give your family space to process. 
  9. Avoiding Comparisons Between New Partners and Exes:
    Focus on your future, not rehashing the past. 
  10. Using Therapy If Reactions Are Intense:
    A counselor can help guide your family through emotional transitions and difficult conversations. 

Why Attend?

This session on June 10th from 5-6pm ET will give you practical tips and emotional insights to help you navigate dating post-divorce with confidence and compassion. Whether you’re just thinking about dating or already in a new relationship, knowing how to share this next chapter with your family is key. 

Reserve your spot today and learn how to move forward while protecting the people who matter most. 

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About the author

Russell Alexander

Russell Alexander is the Founder & Senior Partner of Russell Alexander Collaborative Family Lawyers.